tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12055811681457311912024-03-12T23:06:11.532-04:00Scribblings from SarajevoMelindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.comBlogger336125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-87824558292847497102010-02-17T11:05:00.003-05:002010-02-17T11:19:00.463-05:00K, Well, Time to Move.Good morning Dear Reader,<br /><br />I had to laugh at myself for thinking we might get a little less snow here in Virginia. While we missed the first 20 inches that were dropped on VA before Christmas, we have had the opportunity to experience 18 inches at the beginning of this month, plus another 5 two days later, and then another 3 inches a few days after that. I haven't had much need to go out of the house, as working from home allows me that flexibility, but today, I dropped Wiley off at work, and I had to laugh at all the snow mounds. Every. single. person. I've talked to here has said this winter is atypical. We may have beaten the snowfall record from 14 years ago. It's pretty, but I'm pretty much done with snow. I'm really gunning for spring. <a href="http://www.blueridgeskyline.com/">Skyline Drive</a> is on my list of things to see, and it's been closed due to all the snow.<br /><br />So, anyway, I wanted to publicly announce my new blog, <a href="http://vavalleygirl.blogspot.com/">Va Valley Girl</a>. I've written a few posts already. There will be more pictures, I'm sure, once the snow clears. Enjoy!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-45845616387816524682010-01-18T13:34:00.002-05:002010-01-18T14:07:13.020-05:00Settling In.Well, I've not yet gotten to making the new blog because I just got internet in the past few days and had some housekeeping to do. <br /><br />First things first: do not use Verizon as your internet provider. Being a planner and wanting to get internet up and running as soon as we moved in, we contacted Verizon at the end of December. We were told January 11 would be our start date. Meh. On Friday, the 8th, I contacted Verizon to see where the modem was, as we were supposed to have it already. One person told us to wait until Monday and then if it hadn't arrived, to call. No thank you, so I talked to someone else who said they couldn't find that we'd placed the order and to call the very same people who just told us to wait. No thank you, so I told this guy we'd been there and done that and what was HE going to do to help me TODAY. Before we were done, I had an order number and a promise for a modem to arrive on Monday.<br /><br />On Tuesday, said modem arrived with a user manual CD and a few cords. But the modem didn't work. So again I called Verizon and talked to a couple of people, one of whom said that the internet should be working and if our DSL light was not solid, then something was wrong with our jacks, and someone would have to take a look at them but couldn't do it until Thursday. My patience wearing thin, and my scalp getting irritated at all the hair-pulling, I waited on Thursday for someone to come, and of course, they didn't. So at 12:00, I called Verizon again to ask where the technician was that was supposed to come check my jacks, and Verizon had no idea what I was talking about. The conversations that ensued still irritate me, so let's just say that after 3 hours on the phone and talking with 3 different customer service reps, after saying, "This is not 1995 and this is not new technology", along with, "I thought Comcast was bad, but I'm considering going to them because this is ridiculous", and "I'm not getting off the phone with you until this is solved", on Friday, my internet was up and running. No jack problem, just people who don't know what they're doing. But now I'm back!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-12914324522327112442009-12-05T08:33:00.002-05:002009-12-05T08:47:41.255-05:00It's 7:34 a.m. CST. Do you know where your mind is?Dear Reader,<br /><br />How I have longed to share with you some important news. I finally am able to do so today.<br /><br />Wiley and I are moving to Virginia at the end of this month. That's right, Bloomington will be on the list of places we've lived, and we continue our journey on the border with West Virginia. Wiley got a fantastic job at a university, and we move at the end of this month. I gave my notice at work on Thursday, and have been uber-busy since then showing the apartment, baking, and traveling to Chicago to see friends and go to the Christmas market. <br /><br />Leaving Bloomington is bittersweet. We have friends here that we won't see very often. We have a baby we've watched grow from a little sleeping lump to an interactive little guy who is less and less fussy when we see him. I leave a job without having another to replace it. But mountains are waiting! New things to explore! Hiking! Maybe less snow (which I'm not sure is a good thing because I do like it a bit chilly)! Washington DC is two hours away! The coast is two hours away! Did I mention mountains?<br /><br />The timing, unfortunately, couldn't be worse. I can't unpack Christmas decorations because I just have to pack them up again! We're going to Arkansas for the holiday and then two days later will attempt a move. Our apartment in Bloomington may go unrented, which is very scary paying for two rents that are expensive. But all of these things will pass. I'll find work doing something, and maybe it'll be something I really enjoy that is right now unexpected. Who knows what this move will bring?<br /><br />Right now, I'm in Chicago, and I'll be heading out to shop soon (more like window-shop, but I'm getting some exercise). And tomorrow, I get to meet <a href="http://blog.logtar.com">Logtar</a> and <a href="http://betizuka.com">his wife</a> for the first time face to face! Logtar and I have read each other's blogs for awhile now, and I can count on him to give an honest comment, which is appreciated, and his writing is introspective, which I find fascinating for a guy to do. I'm very excited!!<br /><br />And while people have counseled against it, I think I need to change the blog name. If I lose people in the move, then I guess I'll lose people in the move, but dangit, it's misleading, and I miss Sarajevo alot, but I'm just not there right now. Soooooo, if you have any ideas about a new blog name, let me know. (Cara, I'm looking at you - you have such good names for things!)Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-31931519769859605592009-11-28T21:32:00.003-05:002009-11-28T21:33:44.960-05:00Moving on Up.Changes to be made to the little site soon, and then I think I shall be posting a bit more on an array of topics.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-28309021047244685912009-11-27T21:22:00.003-05:002009-11-27T21:30:01.514-05:00I win.Got my butt up at 3:10 this morning, headed out at 4 am with my warm Glogg in my thermos (like the smell of coffee, hate the taste) to grab my friend, and 45 minutes later, we were in Greenwood at the mall. My timing was off just a bit, as I thought that while the mall would be open at 5, most stores would still be closed until 6. Imagine my surprise when I turn the corner and find the entire parking lot littered with cars. Last night, friends made fun of me for getting up so early and dealing with the throngs of people, but really, it wasn't too bad except in Bath and Body Works, where the B&B Babies didn't know how to snake a line so people kept cutting and 30 minutes later, we finally got to the register. All in all, it was a good time - I got the gifts I needed and hardly any money spent due to returning some other items. And I'd much rather get going early in the morning than go later in the afternoon. By 9:15, which is when we left the mall to come home, walking through the mall was treacherous. <br /><br />My rules of Black Friday are as follows and I quote:<br /><br />"No Wal Mart."<br /><br />"No Best Buy."<br /><br />"Don't buy crap you don't need just because it's on sale."Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-12709374272564334022009-11-16T22:29:00.002-05:002009-11-16T22:39:01.782-05:00For Pom.Ok, here I am, updating a blog that hardly anyone reads anymore because I don't post anymore. It kinda feels like the chicken and the egg merry-go-round. <br /><br />Well, let's see. Pom said to write about the mundane, or take an adventure, so...Wiley has a job interview tomorrow at a university. Tonight we tried to figure out how to fold a suit jacket so it would be as little wrinkled as possible.<br /><br />Yeah. Right.<br /><br />I have started two part-time jobs...one is helping out a friend with some marketing things, and the other is being an admin assistant to an older guy who doesn't want to retire. Last weekend I spent some time typing up his original war letters from 1944. Right now, we're in the jungle of New Guinea and the military men only get 1 candle at a time. Being the entrepreneur that he was, my guy got the melted wax from all the other guys in the unit and melted it all together, stuck some rope in for wicks, and put a metal can behind it to make it quite bright. He has a beautiful house, and in addition to being smart, he's pretty nice. He hired me because of my wit, he said. "You hear something, and then you take it and kick it back out in an unusual way," he said. So far, so good. In addition to typing, I also am a bit of maid. I cook breakfast and lunch and clean up the house a bit. Unfortunately, he doesn't care one bit that I hate fish of any kind, and on three occasions now, I've had to cook some sort of fish, or at the very least, prepare it. Smoked salmon with crackers. Sardines with crackers. Fish soup. Gag gag gag. <br /><br />The most fun thing lately is taking care of friends' 2.75 month old baby for the past month or so. Usually just once a week, Baby Boy and I get together at his crankiest time and figure out how long I can keep him from crying. Wiley also helps most days. Sunday was difficult, though - I was all alone, and everything was going swell until his nap time before bedtime. Before I knew it, he was inconsolable, and for 14 minutes, I held him, changed his diaper, made sure he wasn't too hot or cold, tried to use a pacifier, and came to the realization that he just needed to tire himself out. Into the swing he went, and after 1 good suck on the pacifier, was out for about 35 minutes. Then, he was happy to coo until bathtime, when he screamed again (Mommy said it was her ice cold hands).<br /><br />So cross your fingers that Wiley comes home with good news! That's all for now Pom!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-21958335572343272012009-09-08T18:58:00.002-04:002009-09-08T19:09:44.319-04:00Howdy Stranger.What a busy time this has been. Wiley and I moved into a townhome, did I tell you this, Dear Reader? We are no longer renting our friends' house with our friends' possessions still in it. This townhome we have rented has only OUR belongings in it, and it makes me so happy. So happy that I can even deal with evil college students who don't know how to shut up because their neighbors have ears.<br /><br />A friend had a baby, and I've gotten to spend time with the little one. The day after he was born, we went to the hospital, and he cried like a little donkey. It was darling. Well, now he's got some lungs, and it's slightly less darling, though I understand that you just want to figure out what they're trying to tell you. I'm told the feeding is touch and go, so some days are better than others, but hopefully he'll get the hang of it soon or else my friend's twins are going to fall off. They were told not to introduce a bottle until after a month of feeding, which to me sounds awful for them. Syringe feeding so there's no nipple confusion? Gack. <br /><br />This could be one reason I'm not a mother.<br /><br />But in light of that, the baby is doing well. This weekend is a baby shower, and I made the diaper cake and fondant for the shower cake. Fondant is sticky business. The premade stuff tastes rather awful, but if you make it from scratch, it's much tastier...it's still powdered sugar, but with a hint of almond, it brightens it up. Working with fondant could turn out to be a disaster, as this will be the first time I use fondant on a cake. I know, I know, I should practice, but I am baked out. In addition to the fondant, I made pumpkin cupcakes with cream-cheese frosting and peanut butter cup cookies for the holiday weekend. I got good marks from people on both counts. But that also means I'm not interested in baking until later in the week, and I also find that sometimes on the first try, I do really well, and then the second time, it's a disaster. So while I've made the cake and the buttercream icing before, and know that will be fine, then I'll see how the fondant does. If it doesn't work, I can always take it off and make some more buttercream icing. I'm not worried except I still need to figure out the shape. For a planner, it's not really like me to wait until a few days before something is due to decide. <br /><br />But this is what I call "living a little".<br /><br />And hooray, it's fall!!!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-62948391556557352762009-08-14T12:49:00.002-04:002009-08-14T13:11:03.030-04:00Ketchup.Nothing about ketchup, sorry, but instead a post to catch-up.<br /><br />Wiley and I are moved into our own living space...still renting, but everything inside is ours. No more three kitchen tables, two couches and two pianos. No, Dear Reader, it's a treadmill, a couch, a chair, and an ottoman! With 1 dining room table! And some end tables! It's marvelous. Our two-bedroom townhome is close to work so I can walk on the days it's not too hot (oh yes, I will drive .5 miles to work; I've done it, and I'm ok with it). It's on the busline so Wiley can bus it to school when it's rainy. The walls don't seem to be too thin, though we live next to unknowns on one side and an Indian couple on the other. I'm tempted to ask them to come over and make Indian food with us, as we are big fans, though Wiley makes a wonderful coconut curry chicken already. <br /><br />So the move went smoothly, with A Better Way Moving and Storage loading us up and unloading us at the new place. No scratches, no dings, nothing broken, and all in less than 2 hours. Couldn't have been more beautiful. We thought we lost 3 books and a vacuum cleaner attachment, but all of those items showed up yesterday as we went through our unpacked bins for the third time. As students move in for the year, I'm sure my rosy glasses will become a bit more purple when it comes time to fight for parking spaces, but for this weekend at least, I will enjoy. Wiley also bought a charcoal grill/smoker and has been a caveman ever since he got it. Anytime he can, he's outside playing with his new toy. I can't complain (except he did burn the grass, and it looks a little bad) because the food he's cooked has been fantastic, and all I have to do is set the table and eat. <br /><br />For one weekend, I was a kennel attendant at a local kennel. I cleaned kennels of 20 dogs, inside and out, on Saturday and Sunday, and when time allowed, I was even able to walk and romp with the dogs. Such dogs included two Great Danes (who were the best-behaved dogs of the whole group), two German shepards, a border collie, a Boston terrier, a collie/shepard mix, a St. Bernard, a Labradoodle, a Bichon Frese, two Schnauzers, a golden Retriever, and a little yellow dog that looked like a fox (bushy tail and pointy ears and just a doll). There was also a dog named Starbuck that scared me to death, so he was walked by others. Call me a coward, but when I see you foaming at the mouth when I'm trying to put water in your bowl and you're trying to chew a hole in the fence to get at me, I'm going to leave you alone. The Retriever tried to have his way with me, but I was able to fight him off by telling him to sit. The Labradoodle was impossible to put a collar on, but with the help of my boss, I got it on him, and he was just as giddy and jumpy. I'd had enough by this time and realized if I was ever going to be able to actually walk him, I'd have to show I was top dog, so I said, "Sit." Nothing happened except more bouncy. "Sit." This time, a lap around me. "SIT." He sat. And stayed sat until I said, "Ok, let's go." I patted myself on the back. Sadie, the St. Bernard, however, had a mind of her own, and refused to go back into her kennel after her walk. Tugging on a St. Bernard's collar is not going to work. Pushing on a St. Bernard's rump also has no effect. I think Sadie just got a little tired of my pleads because she finally went in after about 5 minutes of me throwing up my hands. <br /><br />In addition to cleaning out the kennels, I also got to experience just what a dog feels when that door is closed because I ended up locking myself in the kennel no less than three times. I was able to get out one time, but the doors were a little stickier on the other two, so I was glad my boss was there to get me out. She said she used to do it all the time, which made me feel better.<br /><br />Unfortunately, the job was short-lived, and I am not working there anymore, though I have made a new friend who shares my love of Indian food, and I'm hopeful that we will get together for lunches around the kennel schedule. When I got home, I picked up my cats and danced around the room with them, telling them how happy I was that they were little so I could pick them up and place them wherever I wanted them to be (not that they stay, but that's ok).Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-67187837897561143272009-07-29T08:09:00.003-04:002009-07-29T08:22:07.807-04:00Moving Day is Coming.As has become the norm in my life, I am moving. How "norm", you ask? Well, for being 32, I've moved a total of 14 times. I find it kinda funny, considering that I never thought I was one who moved a lot, like Army families. <br /><br />I'm excited to move and live in a space where everything in it is mine. I am trying to be a minimalist and not have crap/clutter, but with others' belongings in the same space, that proves difficult. <br /><br />The only downside is that we're still renting, and in my opinion, still throwing money away. Wiley disagrees, saying it's nice to call someone else to fix something that has broken (like the clothes dryer). In connection with that, we will be living in a complex, and you know how noisy community living can be. But I'm close enough to work to walk, and Wiley's still on the bus line, so it should all work out. And no mowing or weeding!!!<br /><br />And now off-topic completely and better suited for Twitter, but I haven't made the leap yet:<br /><br />Brett Favre, it's terrible that you string teams along, but really, it's what people now expect from you. I think you should have retired long ago. <br /><br />Wiley and I have started watching Cake Boss on TLC. It's gotten my creative juices flowing, and I have been playing with icing and decorating with it, and I made my first fondant (guess what - the taste is actually pretty good!) in preparation of making a baby shower cake in a couple of months.<br /><br />We have also been hooked on Deadliest Catch. If you haven't seen this show (and I managed to avoid it until this year), these guys are completely nutters. I can say with absolute certainty that while I like boats and I like water, this is a job I would NEVER attempt.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-24978753760140037342009-06-15T19:04:00.002-04:002009-06-15T19:40:29.136-04:00Basil FingersIt's been awhile since I've posted, so this will be a bit of a mish mash because I have a little to say on a few topics.<br /><br />The container garden is growing. I just picked basil and we are having it with our tomato and mozzo, called a caprese salad, I believe. It's very tasty. Yesterday, the first cucumber got picked and eaten, and it was sooo good. Tonight I cut some suckers from the tomato plants in hopes that they'll bloom more tomatoes. Right now, I have two: one marble sized, one golf sized, and one that I don't consider a tomato just yet because it's still mainly a flower.<br /><br />Over the weekend, Wiley and I went to Louisville, where we met up with family and went to Churchill Downs. We won two races - right before we left. It's amazing. For only $2 and some odd change, you can bet on a horse. Or a box. And you can do this all day long. It was really fun!!! We also went to the casino, where we lost our winnings on roulette and a slot machine. I don't like the $10 minimum bet tables - you lose too much too quickly, and it's no fun. My strategy is to stand next to Wiley and tell him red or black. We found the $2.50 electronic version of roulette, where we did much better, but in the end, we still lost. <br /><br />And speaking of losses, a very close friend of mine lost someone very important to her (most of you will know who I'm talking about, but that's all I'll divulge). I've been trying to be there mentally for her due to the fact that I'm so far away, but the truth is, we all grieve differently. My mother was taken from me very quickly without warning; my friend's loss was something that was foreseen awhile ago, but that doesn't make it any less painful. And the fact is, while I am empathetic, I don't know how she's feeling. So I tell her how I felt when I had to deal with this and ask if it's somewhat similar. The first year after my mom died, I felt electric, like everything was in technicolor. She passed away in February of 1994, and the cold Iowa winter was just brutal. Nothing but grey and cold. I don't remember the weather clearing up for quite some time. But I remember one day driving down Main Street and stopping for a minute to look at the sky in the spring. It was the clearest, bluesky sky I'd ever seen, and I thought with a bittersweet smile, This is the first clear day of sunshine without my mother. And that's how it went the entire first year. First prom without Mom. She'll never get to hear about my dates or fights with the steady. First spring without Mom. This is the first year that Mom won't be able to plant a garden. First concert without Mom. She's not here to hear me practice. No more swimming and laughing at Mom when she gingerly sticks a foot in the pool and decides I'm nuts for going in at 78 degrees. (Now I get it, Mom; it's too damn cold!) No senior pictures to be taken in the summer where Mom gets to say, "I like that one best" or "Your smile was too fake in that one". First fall without Mom. No funny little paper pumpkin decoration that you paperclipped together and stuck on a table. I called that period the Year of Firsts, and every time I thought about going through something without my mom in this world, it was a shock to my soul. <br /><br />So for my friend who is reeling without her rudder to steady her, the only advice I can offer is that time does heal. You never really get over the grief; you make room for it in your life, and eventually, you notice that the grief gets smaller and smaller, though it will never go away completely, and it may be that 10 years down the road, you'll remember something in the middle of the grocery store that makes you start crying buckets right then and there, while people look at you like you're crazy (and not just because you have 21 items in the express lane). I was very raw for quite some time, though I held it together, missing just a week of school but still going to orchestra rehearsal everyday because that's what you do: you go on. You already know your life is changed. You can't go back to the Life Before. But that's ok because that's what happens, and is supposed to happen. Right now is just about getting through the logistics, and when you're home, it will sink in even more. And that, my friend, is when you call me and cry your little heart out because that's what I'm here for. And I'll cry right along with you because it's really hard, and though I don't know exactly what you're going through, loss, plain and simple, really, really hurts.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-52475002806501153742009-04-28T21:24:00.002-04:002009-04-28T21:29:32.617-04:00Happy Spring.<div style="margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center;"><br /><div style="text-align: left;">Wiley and I went out for a bike ride last Saturday morning and decided to bike into campus and take pictures of flowers so I can work on my skill. These were the best.<br /></div><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2TjtqfBlxrS2r-jWjv4nhyphenhyphenX-qBvfz9UVo-gL6XWed2VuymVtx7RoBChiix7-JE35PNJbV3p2UvIfhQMGEWS0pzWOf80DY9Oh_6Iq_Py0-8-HXAGC3MMC8aWPR8GLl4h2A5hSXNBVyd_U/s1600-h/P4250450.JPG"><img alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2TjtqfBlxrS2r-jWjv4nhyphenhyphenX-qBvfz9UVo-gL6XWed2VuymVtx7RoBChiix7-JE35PNJbV3p2UvIfhQMGEWS0pzWOf80DY9Oh_6Iq_Py0-8-HXAGC3MMC8aWPR8GLl4h2A5hSXNBVyd_U/s320/P4250450.JPG" border="0" /></a> </div><br /><div style="margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1kyiBP6ZcDryp1i1AsCXXcBNWlbqzd5iVI42ByRfQ0uCm81-JDoHxsDTU_4DGlJmC_zxe-0g9rOfFsLKDO0Khg-H6VWPxS_OQo6mLjWLEp06XMWimrg9D4vHssk56R4hmsrME8qDwobE/s1600-h/P4250451.JPG"><img alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1kyiBP6ZcDryp1i1AsCXXcBNWlbqzd5iVI42ByRfQ0uCm81-JDoHxsDTU_4DGlJmC_zxe-0g9rOfFsLKDO0Khg-H6VWPxS_OQo6mLjWLEp06XMWimrg9D4vHssk56R4hmsrME8qDwobE/s320/P4250451.JPG" border="0" /></a> </div><br /><div style="margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxG-MvocsK3funb7vRPG7QL3wmZ8hE5-u2MQUlzjHBPNYxgRQVukaRwl-sBq9sPIr6FKrP6UR7dbYTfSC3wPP9OPxu_Bbr0tlI0lMM6t0pLclgvZ3F4ihXVrOfYQmotghVFXYaKpqAYTo/s1600-h/P4250452.JPG"><img alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxG-MvocsK3funb7vRPG7QL3wmZ8hE5-u2MQUlzjHBPNYxgRQVukaRwl-sBq9sPIr6FKrP6UR7dbYTfSC3wPP9OPxu_Bbr0tlI0lMM6t0pLclgvZ3F4ihXVrOfYQmotghVFXYaKpqAYTo/s320/P4250452.JPG" border="0" /></a> </div><br /><div style="margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzCpS9QVS9tZTp5Ulml81q3aJxtqtCfRzJChX-tPvyxwCvW3arBuFZ8DYV-HykqFI5y2mKqfJV6FMQJGbFwDhVa0Z38CenLK24OCCIkHN0HHwr0GtZQSSGVYqkEMT_oBfH50CjBuNN55M/s1600-h/P4250454.JPG"><img alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzCpS9QVS9tZTp5Ulml81q3aJxtqtCfRzJChX-tPvyxwCvW3arBuFZ8DYV-HykqFI5y2mKqfJV6FMQJGbFwDhVa0Z38CenLK24OCCIkHN0HHwr0GtZQSSGVYqkEMT_oBfH50CjBuNN55M/s320/P4250454.JPG" border="0" /></a> </div><div style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://picasa.google.com/blogger/" target="ext"><img src="http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif" alt="Posted by Picasa" style="border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;" align="middle" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: left;">There are actually a few more, but for whatever reason, I can't get them on the blog. So, for another 8 or so pictures, click <a href="http://picasaweb.google.com/mdwalton1/TulipsAtIU?feat=directlink">here</a>. <br /></div></div>Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-19112274363383935712009-04-20T16:02:00.003-04:002009-04-20T16:22:53.305-04:00And Today's Eye Roll Goes To...Cnn.com states that being fat is less eco-friendly. "Thinner is better to curb global warming."<br /><br />You can read the article <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/04/20/thin.global.warming/index.html">here</a>.<br /><br />I'm already in a bad mood, but this made me even more mad. Our "models" are stick figures. I'm by no means skinny, but I know I have a problem when I see normal-sized models and think they're fat because I'm so used to seeing the skinny models that shouldn't look like a 15 year-old girl. And now we have this stupid article to hang over our heads. No, we don't already have a complex, so feel free to guilt us one more time. <br /><br />You know what? There are people in the world who are fat, not because they are lazy, or because they eat too much; much of it has to do with genetics. Even when I was at my thinnest, I still had a belly. That's where my fat likes to go, first and foremost. Thanks, Mom and Dad, for the gift of looking pregnant even when it isn't so. The last thing I want to read is that I'm contributing to global warming simply because I don't fit industry standards which are way out of whack. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go release my greenhouse gas.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-1854635847648336272009-02-05T19:47:00.002-05:002009-02-05T20:00:34.239-05:00On Hiatus.As it's been 3 weeks or so since my last post, I gotta say I just haven't been feeling it lately. I type a lot, which has led to the hands hurting (especially the right), so I try to give them a rest at night and stay off the computer. This in turn leads to less computer time at night, which is really the only time to blog. And if I' m being completely honest, starting this blog was a way for me to keep in touch with friends and family while I was abroad. I'm not abroad anymore. I don't have any new stories to tell you. Blogs that have a central theme are the ones that are read. My blog doesn't do that anymore. I could tell you the funny stories about my coworker's 3 year-old daughter, who took a dollar bill out of her mom's purse and stood in front of her with it in her hands, threatening to rip it if her mom said a bad word again, but those aren't my stories...maybe SHE should start a blog. My stories involve my cat gaining 1.5 pounds since being back in my care (yes, this is a good thing), or the fact that I was two inches away from hitting a stupid college student who darts out into the street like a toddler...and I know there are those "life" blogs out there, but I'm not one to share everything, especially if I think it's boring. When you're not completely anonymous, that's hard to do without taking some flak, and I don't really want to take flak. So while I won't take the blog offline completely (I still see some strangers coming to it from outer lands), I also won't be posting anything for some time. For those people who read consistently, and the e-quaintances I have with some fellow bloggers, I thank you for your attention. I'll still be keeping tabs on you.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-31773337549531349792009-01-15T16:18:00.003-05:002009-01-15T16:22:17.940-05:00Birthday WishesOn a cold cold day, back in 1996, after waiting and waiting and waiting for my sister's water to break, I went home, sure I would not have a little niece until much later. Not long after I left, my sister indeed went into labor and delivered a little girl, whom I got to meet three weeks later. Today that little girl is beginning the teen years. Having gone through it myself, and having watched my eldest niece go through the years of angst, my words of wisdom are: good luck to the rest of us. Lil B, you won't have any idea what you're doing until you've done it and can laugh about it years later when you finally have the age of wisdom about you, but we will watch you now, sometimes with awe, sometimes with abject horror, and yet at other times with annoyance, but know that your family loves you underneath it all. Happy Birthday!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-1070697906680962592009-01-14T20:09:00.002-05:002009-01-14T20:30:38.980-05:00Embracing FearAs I was recounting an argument had between family members to my Auntie Em, it dawned on me to go ahead and blog about it - fear.<br /><br />What is fear? If you don't know, go look it up. This ain't Webster's Dictionary. And this is my blog, so don't go thinking that I'm going to give you the right answer. I'm giving you <span style="font-style: italic;">mine</span>. <br /><br />Fear, to me, is a motivator. Fear is practically my compass. That which I am afraid of, I know I must do. I don't have a fear of jumping out of airplanes, even though I've never done it. But since I don't fear it, I don't do it. <br /><br />I feared leaving a stable, cushy job. So I knew I had to do it. I feared being a foreigner in a country where I didn't speak the language. That told me that that was the right decision for me. While I think I was a failure because I hardly picked up any of the language and I didn't go out very often by myself, at least I left the country for a time, which is a success. <br /><br />I'm not saying I've done everything I'm afraid of. One great example is working out at a gym. I hate the gym. I went in KC for a period of time, but I can't say I enjoyed it. I always took the treadmills at the back so no one could see my rump bubbling underneath my sweats, and the weights? Forget it. So that's a fear that I have yet to reconcile long-term - I met it once, but right now, I exercise in the comfort of my own living room...kinda like you people with Wiis, but without the console. Hey, lookit that - I just justified not having to come to terms with my fear....<br /><br />(Ahem, moving on.) What I find interesting is how people respond to fear. Change is constant, so you'd better get used to it, right? But what about fear? There's a lot of fear in the air these days. And how do people deal with it? A lot of people I see don't deal with it. If they're afraid to travel, they stay home. If they're afraid of their retirement (or lack thereof), they don't open up their brokerage statements. (And if you do, have a chair handy because you may faint from seeing your 401k turn into a 201k.) <br /><br />I think if you aren't careful and can't deal with fear in a healthy way, it will consume you in ways you can't really see or don't notice. You may become depressed, or sleep too much, or develop ulcers. I suppose people don't deal with fear because it makes them uncomfortable, and why in the world would you want to make yourself uncomfortable, especially when you have a neighbor, a loved one, a boss, a movie, do it for you? <br /><br />Because this is where growth comes from, people. When you face your fears, you build character. You stretch that courage muscle, and before long, that courage muscle will bulge because you've conquered your fears. There are some fears that you'll never get over. I will forever be a little wary of rain if I'm not on a hill ever since I lived unknowingly-but-intuitively in a flood zone. That doesn't mean I'll be living in a flood zone to face my fear. What it will mean is talking myself out of becoming worried when after 15 minutes, the water works still haven't shut off. That uncomfortable feeling will go away, but you have to acknowledge that you have it, and while you feel like heaving out your insides with a spade, rest assured that the feeling will pass. It could take awhile, but it will pass. And if you find that your fear is debilitating, for Cher's sake, go get professional help. Once I have my master's, you can come to me if you like! But don't stop living just because you're afraid. Take one step at a time to overcome your fear.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-71819919242701610652009-01-01T09:43:00.002-05:002009-01-01T09:55:57.393-05:00First PostIn our household, New Year's was pretty low-key. We made food and had some friends over. At 11:46 or so, we turned on the TV, and our options were kinda limited: Carson Daly, Ryan Seacrest with Dick Clark, or Anderson Cooper with Kathy Griffin. We bounced between Ryan and Anderson. <br /><br />Things I noticed:<br /><br />Manhattan, KS, was shown on CNN at 2 am EST. <br /><br />Apparently the 5 second delay isn't in effect anymore. Kathy Griffin got a little unruly and said something to the effect of taking a male appendage out of Anderson's mouth. <br /><br />Dick Clark really shouldn't be on TV anymore. At all. He's just not the same after the stroke, and it was painful to watch. <br /><br />Who the hell were all the people singing and dancing? I knew the Jonas Brothers and Fallout Boy. That was it. And what is up with fashion today, people? Solange, another singer I don't know, had this yellow crap over her eyes...looked like tape....wearing a dress that was fashioned from a garbage bag, with a green belt and blue shoes with clear stilletto heels. She looked like a train wreck. If this is what the kids are listening to, and looking up to, I never want to hear another bad word about the grunge look. At least the shirts matched the shoes.<br /><br />And now, a little advice. Make a couple of goals and work on them slowly. Don't do the resolutions - you know you will break them by the end of the month. But with a goal, you can work on that and even if you take a wrong turn, it's ok because that's what happens with goals. It's easier to see when you've gone astray and then how to fix it without beating yourself up. Good luck!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-79164492083249568452008-12-30T21:39:00.003-05:002008-12-30T21:42:33.504-05:00Happy New YearTo the UPS man who supposedly delivered our packages today: no, you didn't. You might have delivered them to someone else, but you certainly didn't deliver them to our house. Thanks a lot, asshat.<br /><br />And to our possible neighbors who got said packages, I hope you enjoy our Omaha steaks and my clothes from Victoria's Secret. I hope they don't fit you.<br /><br />Happy New Year.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-13063242098411808852008-12-25T14:24:00.005-05:002008-12-25T14:33:55.544-05:00The SightsThis was our view of Christmas Eve:<br /><br />From the bedroom:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjB-ovwtk3isNcFLSvBm5JlX6gOFbCtsmVOLSH20isDDA-7ndeF1vK0o60AupYCPjfAvUwcZY0YbToNTh1wrReCEwF6T7-J6RdXgHlhX4eYLU7gQGOu4K6RB3OzYNemUpBCNsE15_ODEY/s1600-h/PC240345.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 242px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjB-ovwtk3isNcFLSvBm5JlX6gOFbCtsmVOLSH20isDDA-7ndeF1vK0o60AupYCPjfAvUwcZY0YbToNTh1wrReCEwF6T7-J6RdXgHlhX4eYLU7gQGOu4K6RB3OzYNemUpBCNsE15_ODEY/s400/PC240345.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5283812249993769890" border="0" /></a><br />Racing outside in the frigid cold to catch the last few glimpses:<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhf3cruhMTGvhsBvzkGni_78M5c9NaEPITVknTYyx32yHJGdh2n4vJMnDmeIUsr1MhNC2dIa6HSQa45iQNwkWeL38xf7SV5m11leyksPcRp69roWDXpZ8upt1mEWsM3NezAjESEYyrM8NE/s1600-h/PC240357.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 394px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhf3cruhMTGvhsBvzkGni_78M5c9NaEPITVknTYyx32yHJGdh2n4vJMnDmeIUsr1MhNC2dIa6HSQa45iQNwkWeL38xf7SV5m11leyksPcRp69roWDXpZ8upt1mEWsM3NezAjESEYyrM8NE/s400/PC240357.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5283812060825523250" border="0" /></a><br />Trying to be creative:<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_GHe-fBr79Ot4LdxjjxseeNqHwpsKRltXcfk99M5gq9FQQuavmqooLkJy1i-V0hdTIBmCvqtZMRbLAuvv2Gae2JWBatE4F5fa9IuJXuggz88TaWHU0JoGHLQb9D-pUpoCZ1DsbmcMXmQ/s1600-h/sunsetshop.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_GHe-fBr79Ot4LdxjjxseeNqHwpsKRltXcfk99M5gq9FQQuavmqooLkJy1i-V0hdTIBmCvqtZMRbLAuvv2Gae2JWBatE4F5fa9IuJXuggz88TaWHU0JoGHLQb9D-pUpoCZ1DsbmcMXmQ/s400/sunsetshop.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5283811646563741490" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Brown Christmas? No way!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-52668651704631625242008-12-25T10:59:00.003-05:002008-12-25T18:41:37.464-05:00Happy Christmas To You<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO7jA9IF4mGGbIGyn_uge6-9kCyWu9ZRz722Tvxw4uolCQvp32XfSPHUh3IPdOwt6Jbj3Ko0lzEZwUQfI5-MS5p-zx9HMjQx1v7YrRNZTtzkklftbVa6mmw2ifRs5HKgHvGuPCb9Aq0OE/s1600-h/PC222130.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO7jA9IF4mGGbIGyn_uge6-9kCyWu9ZRz722Tvxw4uolCQvp32XfSPHUh3IPdOwt6Jbj3Ko0lzEZwUQfI5-MS5p-zx9HMjQx1v7YrRNZTtzkklftbVa6mmw2ifRs5HKgHvGuPCb9Aq0OE/s400/PC222130.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5283877025737978418" border="0" /></a><br />Can't help it...I'm a Harry Potter fan, so I liked it in the first movie where they said, "Happy Christmas" to each other. I also like Burl Ives' "Have a Holly Jolly Christmas". So take your pick.<br /><br />Right now, Wiley is upstairs and I am snuggled in one of his fleecy shirts, keeping somewhat warm (the toes are always cold). We've opened presents, had a fantastic breakfast consisting of blueberry pancakes, sausage and clementines on our china (this stuff is going to get used, jolly golly), and have listened to some Christmas music and even found the Yule Log on TV that Auntie Em told me about. The stockings have been emptied, the cats have batted around their mice, and A Christmas Story has already been watched. It's been a good day.<br /><br />Have a wonderful holiday wherever you are!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-52147486844807391972008-12-21T17:48:00.002-05:002008-12-21T18:05:10.039-05:00Holy S*#@ It's Cold.7 degrees above 0 with a wind chill of -12. It's kinda chilly. And inside the house it is as well. We keep the house fairly cold - 65 degrees most of the time. But the windows let in so much cold air, it's probably closer to 58 in the living room. I put a blanket up to try and save my heat. We also figured out how to start the fireplace, so that's been going for awhile and is a nice little burst of heat. It's also very pretty and kinda makes it feel like Christmas. Our Christmas will be a brown Christmas, and I'm ok with that, though I can't say I'm used to it. <br /><br />This was the weekend we were supposed to go to Chicago, but weather conditions on Friday prevented us from doing so. So no <a href="http://www.christkindlmarket.com/">Christkindlmarkt</a> for me, but we did rake leaves yesterday and took 12 bags to the drop-off center. Yeah, I would've rather been in Chicago. Today, my back screams for something stronger than Aleve, and I realize that I've become a lazy fat-ass. No 31 year-old who's in shape would be feeling this pain. So while not a New Year's resolution (I don't believe in them), I believe I will start working the free weights again...amazing how quickly you can turn to mush when you don't use your muscles and how easy it is to drop something that was rather routine...and how hard it's going to be to get into it. Who the hell wants to walk a mile or two when it's -12 outside, other than <a href="http://www.arcticglass.blogspot.com">Jill</a> up in Alaska? <br /><br />Tonight we are having dinner with some friends. I made my mom's peanut blossoms - you may know them as something different. They're the peanut butter cookies with chocolate stars on top (or Hershey's kisses because those stars can be really hard to find). Sometimes my chocolate stars roll off, but they're still tasty. Being a baker is a curse. No - being a baker without willpower is a curse. Hence the lazy fat-ass comment above. Sometimes I wish I could have someone else's tongue, one who had nothing but the bitter taste buds covering the whole thing. I think I read somewhere that the less sweets you have, the less you want them (so maybe I just need to eat bitter-tasting stuff and get myself used to it). Can anyone confirm this?Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-16525383223125779682008-12-09T19:11:00.002-05:002008-12-09T19:41:53.286-05:00Where've I Been?My loudmouthed coworker today went to my blog and said, "It's been like a month since you updated your blog!" with an exasperated look on her face. So my following of 1 has spoken.<br /><br />Where have I been, you ask? Eh. Around. Here. There. Not really at the computer. It's hard to write when you don't really feel it. But I will oblige and kinda update you, Dear Reader, on the opinions in my world...not so much happenings, but opinions. That may change as I write.<br /><br />I'm happy <a href="http://www.twilightthemovie.com/">Twilight </a>was made into a movie. I thought the book was fun, and I think <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1500155/">Robert Pattinson</a> will be a dreamy vampire. I hate the color of his hair, not to mention the length. That is not sandy-colored to me. And the more I look at him, the more I'm convinced he's related to the <a href="http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00437/SNN1825OA_437835a.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/showbiz/music/article813065.ece&h=390&w=280&sz=14&tbnid=30W9MjtFP_AJ::&tbnh=123&tbnw=88&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dnoel%2Band%2Bliam%2Bgallagher&usg=__wKjb8DPzTqtVkO1mBwwIprQuDyw=&sa=X&oi=image_result&resnum=1&ct=image&cd=1">Gallagher brothers</a> from Oasis.<br /><br /><a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/developments/2008/12/09/yet-another-extreme-makeover-home-may-face-foreclosure/">Extreme Makeover Home Edition recipients from 2004 are facing foreclosure</a>. I believe <a href="http://generalblather.blogspot.com/2007/03/extreme-makeover-dumbass-edition.html">General Blather really had the best blog</a> on this from last year, so I won't go into it.<br /><br />For living in a house that's relatively new (under 10 years old), it really shouldn't be this drafty. I am always cold.<br /><br />And like <a href="http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2008/12/is-your-house-messy.html">Pom</a>, I too have a hard time keeping it clean. Too much shyt, over half of which is not Wiley's and mine, mixed with our shyt does not a happy home make. No room for anything!!<br /><br />We have decided to stay put for Christmas. Traveling so far in only four days just isn't my idea of fun anymore. Do you know what this means? That's right - shopping for sport begins on Friday, December 26th, so I can find a couple of good deals for next Christmas. Oh yeah. Bring it on.<br /><br />I'm really tired of seeing Beyonce flounce her shyt on TV and telling me she'd like to upgrade me. <br /><br />We found lights in a really big bin and put them on the shrubs out front. It's actually a festive-looking house now. Next up? My <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Festivus">Festivus</a> pole.<br /><br />Last night was fun at a friend's house making gingerbread houses. For all the mess that was made, it was actually all cleaned up REALLY quickly. It was fun.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-2261348864633874572008-12-09T18:38:00.012-05:002008-12-09T19:10:35.265-05:00Tis the SeasonFor getting fat. And hopefully making other people fat as well so then you don't feel so bad about your own weight gain. Today I bring you pictures of peanut brittle. First, the ingredients: 1 cup corn syrup, 2 cups sugar, 1/2 cup water, 2 tsp. baking soda, 2 T. butter, 1 tsp. vanilla, and 2 cups raw peanuts. To make good peanut brittle, humidity should be less than 60%. Just trust me, or say goodbye to your teeth.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNZ76Tnh1HW66Tv19gmLoXUt8S-gSCrkcIu-TMv_k0rvKLsPxGPAlCPADeDeoU_rTRDbKFJePvS8CWGzvD0IACdwkR3xnmRbGrKDFgoz14kk_C_Iykk1fGxxC5yq1PbL0h6xvs-yXY-1A/s1600-h/PB220183.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNZ76Tnh1HW66Tv19gmLoXUt8S-gSCrkcIu-TMv_k0rvKLsPxGPAlCPADeDeoU_rTRDbKFJePvS8CWGzvD0IACdwkR3xnmRbGrKDFgoz14kk_C_Iykk1fGxxC5yq1PbL0h6xvs-yXY-1A/s400/PB220183.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277939827232210178" border="0" /></a>I skipped the pictures where you wait and wait and wait for the water, the sugar and the corn syrup to become a boiling pot of silver over medium-high heat. You "spin a good long thread" in the words of my grandmother, which means you dip in your spatula and then hold it up high over the pan and let the syrup ooze down and watch the thread. When it's about the size of a piece of string and is about 2 feet long, then you're ready for the next step, which is adding in the peanuts and turning the heat down slightly.<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg51u13px67GpTFDRHeCw3GhrTJarmWg5tR2reJ_3zdCw9_Cyx37kj0raI_vSJp8pKb71_GDnQQDGlUGi-LRtYnoONZNN2Ru6Bl-Hm1ls3a8oFrZb-gCFhs7Y5CKIvjDFIKpmdgSxgDJdM/s1600-h/PB220148.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg51u13px67GpTFDRHeCw3GhrTJarmWg5tR2reJ_3zdCw9_Cyx37kj0raI_vSJp8pKb71_GDnQQDGlUGi-LRtYnoONZNN2Ru6Bl-Hm1ls3a8oFrZb-gCFhs7Y5CKIvjDFIKpmdgSxgDJdM/s400/PB220148.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277940152355737442" border="0" /></a><br /><br />When you first put the peanuts in, give them a good stir, but don't be discouraged if they all stick together. It takes a little bit of time. You are now cooking the peanuts. Keep stirring them - not constantly, but you don't really want to leave them alone either. After the peanuts are cooked, you add the butter, vanilla and baking soda, and stir like crazy.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7eaIoqJZwHCeaR-D07BVYO-UAFzp1WZ5W1OBOUof_rFp0iCQsgLB6PSUFfDVW0TS9_bH31n5OOKehhttH1q6e0SUdeN_XxlPmlKwHKW9MPvFoswsgfh6zyCmc9jURzPS7RNXDl8zPFm0/s1600-h/PB220152.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7eaIoqJZwHCeaR-D07BVYO-UAFzp1WZ5W1OBOUof_rFp0iCQsgLB6PSUFfDVW0TS9_bH31n5OOKehhttH1q6e0SUdeN_XxlPmlKwHKW9MPvFoswsgfh6zyCmc9jURzPS7RNXDl8zPFm0/s400/PB220152.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277940467427441202" border="0" /></a><br /><br />This is what the brittle will look like as you're frantically stirring:<br /><br />("Mad dog! Mad dog!")<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDKsvbuy9M0LQS_VH-kHhyphenhyphenD3ikz7hr59jfk7jF9srp0cKSVpcZXb-bxO3atTsEJ0jLcfF0nUJ_JMU7zqOH14H0dd7g3CKJ6PbC34KgkkUMAu2t7uivC4gtTNa5QDQYR0biQNsxouSERFA/s1600-h/PB220161.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDKsvbuy9M0LQS_VH-kHhyphenhyphenD3ikz7hr59jfk7jF9srp0cKSVpcZXb-bxO3atTsEJ0jLcfF0nUJ_JMU7zqOH14H0dd7g3CKJ6PbC34KgkkUMAu2t7uivC4gtTNa5QDQYR0biQNsxouSERFA/s400/PB220161.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277940815060226690" border="0" /></a><br />Once the butter, vanilla and soda are mixed in, grab your greased jelly roll pan (I use Pam spray) - you really need something with a lip on it - and pour out the brittle.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGlj0S4ADKRlByldtluUALvr35fblXsBWnvI8_bFtZMMNm265MRaT746qbt7V7l7rwqePvcjViTpDs8_ndomyI96A90Mevn5eHJzdzZzYrQh697ZoB3-XK1rmdnzl3XoIRXJxydV-LkPo/s1600-h/PB220167.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGlj0S4ADKRlByldtluUALvr35fblXsBWnvI8_bFtZMMNm265MRaT746qbt7V7l7rwqePvcjViTpDs8_ndomyI96A90Mevn5eHJzdzZzYrQh697ZoB3-XK1rmdnzl3XoIRXJxydV-LkPo/s400/PB220167.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277941455265363186" border="0" /></a><br /><br />This is how it will look in the pan:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6G-my3PxPHULCsaci3vdb49ANCRQg3tbOx9AYi0L-YV5FkiJI6NkaT_WH2Xleb-WgBRpV_zT_cXAJ6xff_MoIK3SPhnyLfOi6bHoGQhzV0wlxb3HixaoSczqkzpxLBXhe2JfRGhtWGcw/s1600-h/PB220179.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6G-my3PxPHULCsaci3vdb49ANCRQg3tbOx9AYi0L-YV5FkiJI6NkaT_WH2Xleb-WgBRpV_zT_cXAJ6xff_MoIK3SPhnyLfOi6bHoGQhzV0wlxb3HixaoSczqkzpxLBXhe2JfRGhtWGcw/s400/PB220179.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277941769550765746" border="0" /></a><br />With your oven mitts, take your brittle outside and let it cool. About 10 minutes after putting it outside, you can insert a knife underneath it to help get it out of the pan when it's cool. When it's cool, then you bring it inside and turn it over on your countertop. I line my countertop with paper towels, but it's up to you.<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1WQ7Ai9HpCJ1lSNKDWEZYH4jj91SIX7_FrGrcd5wjwTIM9aVFGXLv6nMFd3uJisgE7w2fc2j99eRVNubiA8D54gpiI9gzSJ4ZFYMqxP69J1L3i6HdNGxqA4zX3FF-xn8Wy41ioaDMBO4/s1600-h/PB220211.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1WQ7Ai9HpCJ1lSNKDWEZYH4jj91SIX7_FrGrcd5wjwTIM9aVFGXLv6nMFd3uJisgE7w2fc2j99eRVNubiA8D54gpiI9gzSJ4ZFYMqxP69J1L3i6HdNGxqA4zX3FF-xn8Wy41ioaDMBO4/s400/PB220211.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277942162683302610" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Then with that knife, take the heavy end and tap the brittle:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhrBckIwJcKtw_PUHCRjBzb_dGnTlWozRbCFSB-nsAj6b_JpmAh0G_GUQWNxbX-vwvJsM65ME5j5_hO6KKhbr1bUrtLpnImmHytbmXKLZjx73Dnu9LIcRr0k2aBPNGIBH7Rwg0r08u5CQ/s1600-h/PB220215.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 229px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhrBckIwJcKtw_PUHCRjBzb_dGnTlWozRbCFSB-nsAj6b_JpmAh0G_GUQWNxbX-vwvJsM65ME5j5_hO6KKhbr1bUrtLpnImmHytbmXKLZjx73Dnu9LIcRr0k2aBPNGIBH7Rwg0r08u5CQ/s400/PB220215.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277942545363447186" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Break and break and break, and you have the finished product:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4qmY2E3JvyMpmVaS9o-QWi0LF9EWFQikf_5FPBo3RFLo7lrhN0cRybWQpl-j2OZcGd2w-0lFE1irpKv9Och3g2VbHuoSlNUVDsJfE55-DXAEspyPJPeCqIGvqDkyQjzVqmACqN4Ry3rA/s1600-h/PB220231.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4qmY2E3JvyMpmVaS9o-QWi0LF9EWFQikf_5FPBo3RFLo7lrhN0cRybWQpl-j2OZcGd2w-0lFE1irpKv9Och3g2VbHuoSlNUVDsJfE55-DXAEspyPJPeCqIGvqDkyQjzVqmACqN4Ry3rA/s400/PB220231.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277943091713645970" border="0" /></a><br />And there is one way to treat your friends and family. Don't fall prey to the peanut brittle you buy in the store. It's not that complicated. Try making it yourself.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-43492922310184491722008-11-21T12:08:00.002-05:002008-11-21T12:14:59.488-05:00Who Knew?I made peanut brittle yesterday during lunch. I am afforded such luxuries because I live 1 mile from work and I'm required to take an hour lunch. However, it wasn't completely cooled by the time I had to leave, so I brought it in today.<br /><br />Imagine my surprise that quite a bit of it is still left. My office loves candy. We have no fewer than four candy dishes in our small office, and whenever the candy dishes are full, you'll see most of us scrounging around in the early afternoon for our fix. Maybe they're sweeted out...yesterday we got donuts and I also made the best sugar cookies ever in the history of mankind (in my humble opinion), and those went very quickly. <br /><br />I wonder what they'll do if I make Divinity. I like my officemates...they're like experimental pets.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-86425610840572390352008-11-14T03:05:00.002-05:002008-11-14T03:10:44.567-05:00This is What I was Born to Do...Travel. We are in Amsterdam now. Wiley is downstairs having his university paid-for breakfast. Me, being somewhat of a cheapskate and not wanting to spend 10.50 Euros on something I probably won't like (and will grab a pastry later on in the morning), am hogging up all the available internet time I can before Wiley takes his computer.<br /><br />Amsterdam is lovely. Yesterday the weather was perfect, and I got a lot of great shots. We would have some to show you today, except we were out until 1:15 in the morning with friends who are living in Germany and London, so we went straight to bed. Today, the rain has come back again, which makes me less than happy, as I don't want to cart around the big camera in its bag because I'm worried it's not waterproof. So I'm still deciding what to do. Dinner last night was at an Indonesian restaurant, built around rice. So we had bits of beef, chicken, pork, and there was lamb (but of course I didn't touch it). We met a very nice guy named Max, who looks like he's 12 even though he's almost 30. <br /><br />I blend in more here than in Sarajevo, and there are just tons of tourists around. Every so often I'll hear a bit of English without any sort of British or Dutch accent. <br /><br />So today I'll be meandering around, looking for an ornament for us. I was already lucky and found my H&M socks. They come in handy when the wind blows because it's blustery.<br /><br />That's all for now, folks!Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1205581168145731191.post-12747067525645225212008-11-07T12:19:00.002-05:002008-11-07T12:34:24.439-05:00Embrace, People, EmbraceWith my handy-dandy Google Reader, I am able to keep up to date with lots of blogs. Even though I no longer live in Kansas City, I still have strong ties to the area. And even though I haven't met so many of the bloggers (I made it to one blogger gathering in August of '07 before moving to Sarajevo), I keep a certain kinship to them. <br /><br />So imagine my surprise and annoyance when I read some people's posts about the election. People who I consider acquaintances, even though we've never met face to face, are being taken to task for their choice in President. I get mad when I read that <a href="http://blog.logtar.com/2008/11/07/the-best-country-in-the-world/">Logtar's</a> friends haven't stopped ridiculing him for picking the "Yes, We Can" man. (In case you've been living in a cave, that man is now President-Elect.) <a href="http://generalblather.blogspot.com/2008/11/tale-of-undecided-voter.html">Heather</a> ends her post with "Yeah, I voted for Obama. What of it?" <br /><br />It really shouldn't be this way, people. It's ok to have a difference in opinion, but for Cher's sake, keep it civil. There shouldn't have to be any defending of one's choice. In life, when one person loses, you still congratulate the other team for winning. It's called good sportsmanship, and it also applies off the field. Former coworkers did this in the 2004 election. One gal was severely ticked off that W. was re-elected, but with a smile on her face, she went to the reigning Republican gal on the floor and said, "Congratulations." Even though they were on opposite sides of the fence, they were still civil and courteous and were still able to talk politics without getting nasty or thinking negatively about the other person. <br /><br />Is the new guy going to screw up? Sure. I know people are just salivating at the mouths waiting for the first slip-up, but, um, this is your country too, and like it or not, this is your president. You don't get to complain just because you can say, "I didn't vote for that guy". Feel free to complain about the <em>situation</em>, whatever it will be, but remember that your friends are your friends and treat them as such.Melindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271noreply@blogger.com1